Advent of Oral or Cyber Sex

To have sex in relationship is satisfactory as its gives the pleasure to the highest intensity of love. Love is not only sex as intercourse is an integral part of love for both the sexes. Without it, love or re-production is not completed. However, intercourse is actually allowed after wedding only by religious point of view but in western world or eastern developed countries, people commit sex subsequent to affection or just attraction only.

In many under developing countries mostly having eastern cultural ethic values especially for females, it is considered immoral to engage in sexual relationship prior to marriage. Unlike these countries, the scenario in the west is quite different as every one is free to make love before wedding and even living together. Although eastern females residing in hot and tropical region are more emotional than those living in western cold region, desire to do intercourse much more times but cannot, due to family restrictions and socio-cultural barriers.

The first short cut of getting sexual pleasure began from oral talks on phone and during dating at public places. However, after usage of internet became common and accessible to every one through the mushroom growth of net cafes marking a new establishment of sexuality, which is known as “cyber sex” or “roll on”. To perform this act people do live chatting using web cam for posture view to create lust and provoke sexual affection. Mostly the girls use false identity to do the cyber sex, in order to keep the real personality hidden from sex partners. In this game of lust, those males who rarely get a chance of love making in real make use of this opportunity to drive these girls into committing oral or cyber sex. The consequences of oral and cyber sex leads to mental illness and genital problems. Especially in females, the menstrual discharge becomes irregular accompanied by vaginal infections. The intercourse in actual done with protections is rather better than above.

This also brought down the sale of porn movies because the local net café was not only providing net facilities as well as nude movies too on server’s hard disks on cheaper rates.

Time has come to create awareness through electronic as well as print media, about the negative impact of oral and cyber sex, on the physical and mental well being of the individuals. Instead of imposing strict law, which can reveal the identity of culprits in media or penalizing them, its better to warn them and give them the knowledge of what is actually required.