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12 Things That Can Make You Commit Suicide Tomorrow

Do you know you are suicide prone?

The very mention of suicide always go with a lot of why? Why? Why?…..s. Who is suicide prone? The answer is you are. God for bid! Heaven permit. There are many conditions that can lead you into suicide. Some are present today yet others may surface tomorrow and yet some may or may not be there on both today nor tomorrow. They include:

BROKEN HOMES

Children from broken homes are most likely to commit suicide in future. If one or both parents were lost during ones childhood either by divorce or death. Children brought up without the warmth and solace of both parents tend to be more emotionally disturbed and less emotionally stable. They may feel unloved, rebuked, rejected or hated at the slightest show of unacceptance by anyone. They view themselves as unfortunate and that rejection is an inseparable part of them. They view the world with inward rebuff and believe they truly don’t belong here.

ADDICTS

Addicts are also likely to commit suicide. If one is addicted to drugs, alcohol, sex, games, the internet etc, he is classified here. To a drug addict, drugs lead him away from facing reality, same to an alcoholic, sex maniac, game chaser, internet comber etc. When the reality they ran away from still faces them after an end to the addictive act, they tend to feel depressed, sad, hopeless and lost. The absence of their object of addiction also pushes them to the wall. When they face all these, suicide always seem a nice way to escape.

RESTLESS HOME

Even as they saying goes that “there is no place like home”, home is supposed to be a place of peace, warmth, love, coziness and quietness. When the reverse occurs, and the home becomes a haven of quarrels, fighting’s, complains, arguments, enmity, strive, and anger outburst, the incumbents of such a home view it as a place they never intend to belong yet have been forced to do so. They believe home has rejected them and the world will do no better. They see everyone they meet as one with the same characters displayed at their home. They meet and act outside as their home does hence they often face rebuff from people. They feel much depressed when they see peaceful homes and discover that theirs can never be like that. They may end up heading to self elimination ….. Suicide.

RECOVERED FROM MENTAL DISORDER

When one had once been mentally disordered, he goes about with a feeling of uncertainty and many questions. Why did it happen? How did I act? Will it reoccur again? Am I still mentally troubled?….. He often strives to do his best in living a healthy live but there is always a feeling of incapability, incompleteness, low self esteem hovering round him. He faces psychological boredom which may lead to his wishing himself gone to the grave hence he may commit suicide.

NEED FOR LOVE AND APPRECIATION

These occurs more with writers. There is always an urge for the love and appreciation of ones works. The absence of such leads to depression and a feeling of not good enough. If critics also comes in, it hits them more. Even among peoples, if one sees himself as not fully given the attention required, he might decide to commit suicide with a believe that he will be thought about with love and pity after death.

BEREAVEMENT

If one is bereaved of a love one especially when he believes it is someone whose importance cannot be overemphasized upon, he tends to feel hopeless. If the dead was a caretaker, regular provider, intimate companion etc, the beneficiary might think he is not capable of living without such an important part of himself hence he wishes to join the dead hence remit with his lost benefactor.

REVENGE

A person might commit suicide as an act of revenge upon a person or group of persons. If as a result of the suicide, the person or group will be held responsible for it, have a feeling of guilt or blame themselves for not seeing the importance of the dead early enough.

LONELINESS

Loneliness creates a feeling of unwanted ness and unimportance. The sufferer views himself as totally unneeded and whose absence cannot be detected. There is no need of living for nobody. Better dead than invisible so he ends up with a suitable option which maybe suicide.

UNCORRECTABLE HABIT

If one suffer from an habit he wishes to correct yet he is unable to, though he tries so hard, he might opt to suicide. Habits like those which do not conform too ones religious, personal, group, family, social, mental, talented or professional ethnics and which has been strived with for a long time with no good reward. This uncorrectable habits becomes a thorn in the flesh and it is believed that the last possible way to eliminate it is the elimination of self.

PERSISTED ILLNESS

If one suffer from a persisted illness which requires and over demands the attention of others, he might see himself as a bore and great inconvenience to others and might commit suicide in a bit to stop being such a burden to others.

ECONOMIC CRISIS

If one gets faced with economic crisis with no possible way of bouncing back, he might decide to go for suicide as a last resort to solace and peaceful being.

INSOMNIA

Insomnia is the condition of not being able to sleep. It leads to weariness and depression. Fatigue follows and one living because of graveness of his convenience.

CONCLUSION

A treat of suicide should be taken very serious because most cases of suicide occur after a threat because out of the hearts abundance, the mouth speaks.

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  1. I am a mother who lost a son nine months ago this month. This young man was one of the loves of my life. I loved him more than I loved myself; he was my heart. He was brutally murdered and the really bad thing about it is; he never harmed anything or anyone in his life. He was a beautiful person. I grieve every waking day but I can honestly tell you that I never had a thought of ending my life. My life is precious to me. I don’t believe that everyone’s mind is geared the same way. Some minds are more fragile than others. Believe me, I have been through things that many people would cringe in horror just listening.
    I’m still very sane because I learned to deal with my pain and go on living.

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