Do you wonder why your man is so attracted to the other woman?
Infidelity is not always about falling in love with the other woman. But what makes her so attractive to your man? Don’t ever think your man will tell you what is wrong with you because he won’t. Don’t also think that the other woman will apologize because she also won’t. She will probably blame you for the whole affair. Why not? She’s a bitch and bitches don’t apologize; they rationalize. It all redounds to you, the injured party and how you fare alongside a bitch and a cheater. Since they won’t spell things out for you, I will. Been there, done that. I was the woman, not the other woman. It hurt so bad I had to see a counsellor. Some of the following may not apply to me and you but they are bitter truths that may have thrown your man into the arms of another woman. Face them now or lose your man.
You: You let your life revolve around him. You monitor his whereabouts like a true- blue stalker.
The Other Woman: She appears not to care about his absence. She is so involved with her own life.
Your Man: He is challenged by a woman who doesn’t seem to need him.
You: You are insecure about your looks and engage all means to make yourself attractive to him.
The Other Woman: Even if she is not attractive enough, she has a take it or leave it attitude.
Your Man: Self-confidence makes a woman appear gorgeous to him.
You: You are a “yes” girl always agreeing with his ideas and beliefs.
The Other Woman: She speaks her mind even if she has to disagree with him.
Your Man: He has greater respect for a woman who has a mind of her own.
You: You complain or nag him like his mother.
The Other Woman: She gives him the cold shoulder if the terms are not favourable to her.
Your Man: He takes a woman’s silence more seriously than her noise.
You: You are jealous of the other woman and try to compete with her.
The Other Woman: She is not a clinging vine. She easily lets go of him if there is another woman.
Your Man: He is attracted to a woman who is secure with herself.
You: You jump to bed with him too soon or never refuse his sexual advances.
The Other Woman: She controls her sexual urges giving the relationship time to grow before having sex.
Your Man: He loses respect for a woman who is subservient to his sexual needs.
You: You are too sensitive or defensive when he points out your weakness.
The Other Woman: She laughs at herself and can banter with him.
Your Man: He is turned on by a woman who has great sense of humor.
Don’t try so hard to chase your man because the more he will run away. Believe in yourself and hold your own regardless of what your man does. Then and only then will the principles of attraction work to your best advantage. At the end of the day, he may come running back to you. If he doesn’t, take it as his loss, not yours. Now, hold your head high and take good care of yourself. All the best.
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