When you’re next to a woman you’re attracted to, of course, you want her to be aroused just by sitting next to you. Now, this isn’t some distant dream. In fact, if you want to get a girl horny, it’s completely possible but you need to know how it’s done. Sexually speaking, men and women are different in the ways they become aroused. So, don’t assume that women become aroused the same way as you do. We’re physically built differently and our arousal is highly connected to our mental state at the moment. In other words, if we’re not turned on mentally, nothing is going to happen down there. So, you may feel that it’s the right moment for you but is it the right moment for her? If you want to get a girl horny, then you’re going to need to listen up.
You like her, that you know for sure but does she like you? If you both know that you like each other then this won’t be as hard, but if you’re unsure about how she feels about you, you’re going to have to tread lightly and test the waters. But regardless of this, the goal of making her horny is by building the sexual chemistry. You’ll want to flirt with her, tease her, and build the tension between you two. You both will be able to feel the sexual tension but this doesn’t mean you jump on it right away.
Before anything, you need to know that you should go slow. I know it’s hard to wait, however, the best experienced is when you both are full of sexual tension and need to release it. This shouldn’t be something that you want to just get over with. You need to be fully into the experience, enjoying it, and the same goes for her. So just take your time and enjoy the moment with her. The experience will be much better than if you were to just rush through it.
Like I said before, women are turned on mentally as opposed to men who become turned on visually. See? These are two huge differences. When you’re with her, you want her to be mentally focused on the conversation and engaged. This doesn’t mean you need to be flirting with her for the entire conversation. In fact, you should mix the conversation, talk about regular topics and throw in a flirty line every now and then. If you’re too flirty, it’ll give the impression that you only want to sleep with her and that will turn her off completely. She wants to be chased and you want to chase, so do it.
If you like her, then you need to show it. Though we’re all talkers, most of our communication is done non-verbally. That’s right. The way you walk, sit, gesticulate – these are all communication signals which are more noticeable than words. So, first and foremost, your words need to match your body language. If you’re into her, don’t sit next to her like she has a contagious skin condition. If you want her to see that you’re interested and if you want to turn her on, sit close to her. Now, you don’t need to sit close to her right away. As the conversation progresses and you’re seeing more signs that she’s into you, you can inch your way closer to her. That way, she won’t feel uncomfortable in the beginning. If your arms are touching each other slightly or your thighs, this can be highly arousing as it increases sexual tension.
I did say that you should mix the conversation and be flirtatious while also maintaining a regular conversation – and that’s right. You shouldn’t be overly sexual when you speak unless she’s being highly sexual when she speaks. But, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t flirt with her. Flirting is essential if you want to build sexual tension between two people and it’s crucial that you flirt with her. During the conversation, you can throw in some flirtatious lines and see how she reacts. Keep them low-key and subtle so you’re not coming off too aggressive. The lines could be “you have a beautiful smile” or “wow, you smell great.” They’ll charm her and won’t make you look like a creep so it’s a win-win. Throughout the conversation, add a couple flirty lines here and there. If you’ve already been highly flirtatious with each other, then you can continue where you left off.
Okay, this isn’t a bad move but you need to be very careful when doing this. First off, if you just met her, you shouldn’t be touching her at all. Keep your hands to yourself. Now, if she touches you first, that shows you she’s comfortable. But this doesn’t mean you grab her ass as a response. No, no, no. If you would like to touch her, touch her hands while complimenting her on her nail polish or the shape of her fingers. If she moves her hands away, she’s uncomfortable and you need to stop.
Ah yes, you’ve seen this is most romantic comedies. The guy will brush the hair away from the girl’s ear and whisper into it. Listen, it works. If you guys are flirting with each other and there’s a sexual connection, then whispering will certainly make her feel aroused. Whispering in her ear can occur anywhere whether you’re at the club, movie theatre, in the back of your friend’s car, or at a gallery opening. You can say whatever you want when whispering in her ear. It can work regardless if you want to make her laugh or have her look at you intensely. The point is, by whispering in her ear, it creates a sensual and intimate atmosphere.
Whether you’re touching her hand or saying a flirty line, she’s going to give you either a positive or negative response. Now, it’s your job to read it and see how to proceed. If she’s touching you, speaking slowly, and being flirty then the odds are she’s into you and becoming aroused, so you’re on a good path. But, if she’s pulling away from you, giving you uninterested responses, then it’s best you back off and leave her alone.
If she’s showing you positive signs, then keeping going along with it. Continue flirting with her, touching and teasing her, building up the tension. There will be a moment where you’re going to be able to make a move, and then, if all is going well, and she’s giving you the green light, take it.
If you don’t really find her that attractive then this isn’t going to be an enjoyable experience for both you and her. People can feel when someone isn’t really into them. So, when you’re talking to her, be in the moment and be honest with yourself. If the conversation is barely getting by and you’re starting to feel sad, then leave. You don’t need to try to arouse her because frankly, it’s not going to end up well. If you want her aroused, you need to be in the moment and enjoying it.
The worst thing you can do is preplan your moves and have the intention of getting laid on the night you go out. If you’re only focused on sex, nothing is going to happen for you. Go out with the intention to have a good time with your friends and if you meet someone, great, if not, that’s cool too. The point is, if you preplan your night, it’s not going to work out for you. Go with no expectations, that way, whatever happens, will be a win for you. Plus, women are able to sense men who are just looking to get laid. You don’t want to have that energy associated with you because if so, then you’re for sure not going to get anything.
Getting a girl horny isn’t as hard as you think it is. However, it does require some thought. If you’re struggling with getting a girl horny, there’s one thing to remember: you need to start with her brain first. Everything else will follow. Stimulate her mind and you’ll be set on a good path. And one last thing, remember what I said earlier, if you’re not into her, don’t force it. Sexual tension is a two-way street, so you both need to be vibing each other in order for this to work out.
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