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Creating Relationship Synergy Through Rapport Building

Creating Relationship Synergy through Rapport Building.

Creating Relationship Synergy through Rapport Building

How often have you wanted to create a connection with someone or a group but somehow missed the mark? You keep getting the same results every time you make an attempt at establishing any relationship, and it�s a result you�re not happy with. If this is the case you really need to change how you do things.

Rapport building is one of mutual influence, a give and take within a relationship, includes having regard for the feelings of others, respecting and understanding them, and looking at life from someone else�s perspective other than your own. Walk a mile in someone else�s shoes and begin to understand where they�re coming from � it doesn�t take much, just your willingness to give it a try.

One of the great things about rapport is that it doesn�t matter whether you have agreement or not with the other party. Remember some conversations you�ve had in the past with your best friend, partner, or even children. Do you always agree with them? What happens when you disagree? Is it the end of the world or is there friendly banter? Sometimes we simply agree to disagree. I heard someone say once �You can either be right, or you can be happy.� I know I�d rather be happy.

You can also build relationships with those you personally don�t get along with. I�ve had jobs in the past where I had absolutely nothing in common with my bosses, however I still respected their position � they were still my boss, they were running the show and for all intents and purposes knew what they were doing. With that, my professional integrity remained intact.

So what can we do about getting rapport happening?

Interaction with others is multifaceted. We all have our own views on life that we believe is right, we have different values and beliefs; there are cultural issues as well as many other things that need to be taken into consideration when dealing with others. So I�ve come up with some very basic rapport building strategies that might just make it happen for you.

Firstly, take baby steps. If you�re uncomfortable matching and mirroring the behaviours and language of others, start by practising with yourself in front of a mirror, find yourself a partner you�ll be comfortable practising with, or mirror someone on television. The more you practise the more fluid your rapport building skills will become � think of this as if you engaging in a slow moving rhythmic dance with someone.

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