For those of us who have a crush, we often fantasize about one day approaching them and talking to them and maybe having that chance to go on a date with them. When you’ve already approached her and talked to her, the next step in your budding romance is to start getting a little more flirty.
Since many women see communicating as a very effective way of bonding with someone, asking her questions is a sure way to show her that you want to bond with her more as you get to know her even better. So when you’re already starting to get a little closer, make sure you ask her some of these questions.
How do you see yourself in the future? Talk to her about the future and she won’t be able to help but think of you being in it. Ask her what she wants to do in the future, maybe in 10 years or 20. Not only does this help you know what her goals in life are, but it will also help you check if her priorities in life align with yours.
What was the worst, most awkward date you have ever been on? When you’re flirting with a girl, it’s only natural to talk about the funny and lighthearted experiences you had in life. She has definitely had her fair share of bad dates, and that sort of thing is fun to talk about. In turn, you can also tell her about your weirdest or most awkward date. But be sure not to be too demeaning towards the person you had a date with, as she may see this is you being judgmental.
What outfit does a guy have to wear to get your attention? This is more of a subtle rephrasing of “what should I wear on our date to make you even more attracted to me.” Women take pride in their attention to detail, and when it comes to clothes, you bet she has a preference. Some girls like men in more casual wear like a white t-shirt and some jeans for a casual picnic date. Others like a more dapper appearance such as a dinner jacket over a button-down with some leather loafers for a fancy dinner. Knowing what outfit she likes in a guy also lets you know what kind of dates you could potentially be going on.
If I could take you on a whirlwind weekend getaway, where would you like to go? No one would reject the chance to relax and travel to a new location! Even if you haven’t got the means to take her on that whirlwind weekend getaway, it’s still nice to be able to fantasize about it. Listen for words like “we” or “us” because this can only mean that she one day intends to go with you on that getaway.
If there was one thing you could change about yourself, what would it be? Allow her to share her more vulnerable side, the side of her that she is hesitant to show to the world. When you’re already close, she might feel comfortable enough with you to share these things. And when she does, make sure you listen intently and acknowledge her insecurities, no matter how small they seem. This also gives you the opportunity to reassure her that she doesn’t have to change a thing because she’s awesome just as she is.
Make your crush feel just how interested you are in her by asking her questions that allow her to open up to you!