When you’re with a girl in bed, you want to make sure you please her. This is a completely natural and understandable desire to have. Of course, there are plenty of ways to please her sexually, however, most women love receiving cunnilingus. Now, if you want to go down on a girl, you can, but if you want her to enjoy herself you need to know how to do it properly. If not, it can be a truly uncomfortable and unpleasant experience for the both of you. If you have eaten a girl out before, don’t worry, in this guide you’re going to find out everything you need to know in order to please her. Guys who are great at it didn’t become masters of it overnight. Well, technically yeah, they did, but it takes a lot of practice to understand a woman’s body.
Maybe your friends told you that you should give it a try, but you’re not really sure why you need to do that in the first place. Maybe you’re thinking that you can just have sex with her instead of going down on her and you can. However, women love receiving foreplay, and they need it in order to get themselves wet. Going down on a girl gives her extra pleasure and is a nice addition to your foreplay routine. Plus, when she does orgasm, it’ll feel even better.
#1 Actually want to do it
At the end of the day, you have to want to eat her out. This goes the same for women when they’re going down on a guy. If you notice that a girl doesn’t like giving blowjobs, but she’s doing it anyway, you’ll notice and it’ll turn you off. Well, the same thing goes for you. If you want to genuinely please her when you go down on her, you should actually want to do that. If not, she’ll notice and start to think that there’s something wrong with her.
#2 Don’t go straight for it
This should be a part of foreplay, which means you want to work your way down slowly. Don’t go right away to her vagina and start eating her out. You want her to be wet by the time you get down there. Make the situation very hot and sexual. Start with making out and work your way down, inch by inch. Women take longer to arouse than men, so keep that in mind when you’re in foreplay. Rushing too quickly ahead can ruin the experience – a little tension never hurt anyone.
#3 Go slowly down
I said it before and I’ll say it again – go-slow. I know you guys want to have sex, and you will have sex with her but why rush the experience? Remember, you’re trying to build anticipation, this isn’t a race. By the time you make it down there, she’ll be begging for you to eat her out and that’s what you want.
#4 Find the clit
When you’re eating a girl out, it’s very important that you find her clit. Now, if you’re not sure where it is, google it because you’ll need to know. It’s important to remember that all clits come in different shapes and sizes, so, some may be tucked away a bit while others may be more obvious. But that’s why you look at a diagram to give you a better picture of where it is. Eating a girl out is all about the clit, so spend some time learning about it.
#5 Apply the pressure
Okay, so you found the clit – great. Now that you have that covered, you need to focus your attention on it with your tongue. Just because you found the clit, doesn’t mean your job is done. Now, with your tongue, you’ll want to apply pressure on her clit. Aside from flicking your tongue up and down or back and forth, you’ll need to put pressure on it. By pressing down on her clit while flicking it around, it’ll give a vibration sensation. Trust me – for women it feels amazing.
#6 Flick your tongue
Like I said in the last point, you need to flick your tongue up and down and back and forth. This gives a vibration feeling in that area, plus, with the consistent movement against the clit it’ll get her off. So, you’ll want to play around with your tongue and see which motion works the best for her. You’ll be able to tell by her body language and moaning.
#7 Don’t forget the other parts of your mouth
You may think that you only need to use your tongue, but you can use your entire mouth. You have the chance to kiss, lick, and suck not only her clit but her labia as well. You can really improvise with your mouth and test out new things, seeing how she responds to everything. Sucking on her lips also gives off a suction sensation that’ll drive her wild.
#8 Don’t forget your hands
If you’re well-skilled with fingering, then this will work out great. Of course, oral sex is about your mouth but you can also use your fingers as well to create a larger sensation. Her g-spot can be touched with your fingers while you’re eating her out. Finger her deeply while you’re licking her clit, and she’ll lose her mind. With this move, you may be able to get her to orgasm, you just need to get the combination right.
#9 Pay attention to her other body parts
We tent to get so focused on one area that we forget about the other body parts as well. Don’t forget to give her some extra attention to your hands as well. Your hands are able to go everywhere, so, while you’re eating her out, grab and squeeze her butt or breasts. When you do this, you’re stimulating other areas of her body which are a part of the erogenous zones. She’ll become more aroused by this as well because she’ll be overwhelmed with sensation.
#10 Talk to her
You may have done a great job but unless you ask her, you won’t really know. Don’t be afraid to stop in the middle and ask her if she likes it. If she loves it, she’ll tell you to keep going, but, if there’s something she needs adjusting in order for her to orgasm, she’ll let you know. This form of communication is a great learning tool for you since you’ll be able to learn about what she really likes. Plus, it’ll give you a chance to take a quick break – your tongue can get a little sore after a while.
Going down on a woman can be an amazing feeling and one that every woman should experience -if she wants. You may be nervous to give it a try, but follow these tips and be honest with her. If you’re not experienced that’s okay. If she knows, then she’ll be able to help you out and direct you to what you should do. With some practice, you’ll be able to so much more not only about yourself but about your partner as well. Plus, if you make her orgasm – that’s a great achievement. So, follow these steps and you’ll be well on your way to pleasing her.