Of course, as a couple you’re going to have date night. It’s the night that you get to relax and spend quality time with your partner. Regardless of how long you’ve been with your partner, date nights are essential for couples to bond and reconnect. Many of us have busy days, spend our time running around and tend to forget to about our partner’s needs. If you’re one of those people, then you know how important a night dedicated to your partner is.
There are a couple things that date night consists of. Firstly, date nights are no-fight nights. If you’re in a bad mood, talk about it with your partner and then leave it at the door. Secondly, date nights aren’t about criticizing each other, instead, this is the time for you to talk about positive things, not make someone want to emotionally blow up. Last but not least, make sure that your date night is interactive. You can do a movie night, however, you can’t leave it there. Either go for dinner or a coffee together, spending some time talking about the movie, etc. Your date night needs to have some bonding time together, but at the same time, if you’re looking to spice things up, then you can also make it naughty. Who said date nights have to be innocent?
Hit on each other
Want to see if your partner still has their moves? Why not try to pick each other up? You or your partner can go early to the bar and wait for them to approach you. Offer them a drink, tease them a little bit, and get to know them. Make sure you pick a character and stick to it! If it’s getting hot and spicy, why not have a quickie in the bathroom? You don’t have to wait until you get home to finish date night.
Get yourself dressed up
Get yourself some sexy lingerie and take a couple photos of yourself in it before date night. Send it to them so that they know what’s underneath your clothing. For men, you don’t need to wear your old boxers but rather, give her a little sneak peek of you going commando. Play around with sexy clothes to arouse your partner on date night.
You don’t have to wait until the end of the night to show your partner what they need a taste of. You can start your date right away with a little kink. Start the date off with a quickie or some light foreplay to get the night going. Trust me, once you do this, your date night out won’t last for long. But tease them a little bit so that it builds the sexual tension.
Do something alternative
You usually go for dinner and a movie but why not try something completely out of the ordinary. If you have your favorite restaurant that you always go to, try a different type of cuisine or go somewhere that’s a little alternative like a dark room dinner. Sure, you don’t have to do this for every date but it’s good to break the routine and try something that’s alternative. Trust me, it’s a turn on at the end of the night, even if it was a huge fail.
Try something new
Maybe you always wanted to try salsa dancing or a ceramics class. The point is, these are things that you’ve always wanted to try, you should try with your partner. For one date night, you can pick the activity and for the next date night, they pick the activity. It should be something that either you or your partner wanted to try but never got the chance to. You’ll be experiencing something new together and certainly will have a laugh. Not only that, after the activity, it’s hard not to be turned on by your partner.
Get yourself dressed up nicely and go somewhere fancy. Go to a ballroom dance, an up-scale restaurant, or the opera. Getting dressed up and going somewhere fancy is a great way to not only pamper yourself but to turn on the heavy romance. You can even have a night in a fancy hotel with room service. Take advantage of these moments to connect with your partner is a sexy atmosphere. Plus, you can even roleplay as well, pick a mysterious character to play and see where the night takes you.
Do your first date over again
You had a first date with your partner, so why not relive it? Maybe you went to a specific cafe or went to see a certain movie. If so, relive that date and watch the movie all over again. If you want to add a little role play, pretend that you’re on a first date and ask each other questions to “get to know each other”. You may already know the answer but you may also find out new things about your partner. People change, you change, and maybe you didn’t even notice.
Act like a teenager
We’re all young at heart, however, once you have responsibilities you drop your youthfulness and focus on paying bills, taking care of kids, and working. But being an adult doesn’t have to be so serious. On your date night, go back in time and relive your youth. When you’re with someone for a long period of time, your date nights can become dull and boring. But you’re not that couple, right? If not, this means you need to put in a little extra effort in making sure you spice up your date night. Go make out in the back seat of your car, sneak out of the house, hoping not to get caught or watch the sunset on top of the mountain with a little picnic. During your teenage years, you didn’t have a lot of money, but you managed to keep things spicy with what little you had.
Have a surprise night
Everyone loves surprises! Decide who’s going to be the one to come up with a date night idea and have them plan date night. Of course, you won’t know what’s going to happen on date night until you’re on your date. If you’re in charge of date night, come up with a fun activity, something meaningful and watch them freak out when they discover what you two are doing for date night.
We always do our dates in a certain way. We first meet up, go to a movie or dinner and then go home and get naughty. But why can’t it be the other way around? Rather than going for dinner and a movie first, have some sensual foreplay, wild and naughty sex and then, after everything, get up, get dressed and go get ice cream or whatever you wanted to do for your date. Or if the wild sex isn’t coming to an end, who says you have to move onto the next activity?
Have a naughty night at home
Date night doesn’t mean you need to go out and dish out a bunch of money in order to have a naughty date night. If you want to make your home date night naughty, then turn your home into a sexy love nest. Light candles around the house, have a warm bubble bath ready, and a sexy fondue dinner in front of the fireplace. Pretty sexy, don’t you think?
Have a “first” experience
Funny enough, so many couples have some wild and crazy things together like skydiving or backpacking, however, most couples haven’t done the basics together. What do I mean by the basics? I mean the real basics. Mini-golf, going on a roller coaster, spend a weekend camping or cooking a dinner together. You don’t always have to do crazy and wild things in order to have an intimate and naughty night. You can make mini-golf naughty by stating a reward for the winner or wearing something a little revealing when you bend over to try your hand at golf. The little things go a long way.
Date night doesn’t have to be like every other night nor should it be. This is the night that you and your partner get to let loose and connect emotionally and sexually. So, have fun with it! One date night, do something completely out of the ordinary while the next date night, have a sexy night at home with lingerie and sexy foods. It’s your night so take advantage of it!