Your sex life has been lacking. Now, the issue you’re having with your partner could simply be because of the lack of sex you’re having or it could be something else in which a lack of sex is the result. However, this is something you need to work on. If you want to be more intimate with your partner, you’re going to need to invest time into it.
It’s understandable that life can distract you, especially if you’re working, social life, kids – these all play a factor at the end of the day. Sometimes after a long day at work, you just want to go to bed. And, if your work is always stressful, well, then you probably don’t invest much time in having sex in general. But, this is when you become sexually frustrated. This is when the fights start, this is when you start to resent your partner.
This may be a hard one to swallow but you have to accept that there will be parts of your relationship that you won’t be able to change. Even though your partner is aware and they try, they’re only human. In addition, life takes its toll on people, so, of course, your sexual libido isn’t going to be the same as it was when you were twenty. Your days may be filled with taking your kids to their activities. These are just parts of your life that you’re going to have to accept as what it is. The only thing you can do to counteract these unchangeable issues is to make time with your partner every week to spend quality time together.
Now that you know what you need to do in order to curb your sexual frustration, it’s time you got to work. Nothing is going to change unless you address these issues and start working on them. Relationships aren’t easy and these periods of sexual frustration will happen to everyone. Though, what you need to focus on it getting you and your partner out of this phase and into a healthier dynamic.