Singing, eating and talking are some of the best things our mouths can do. However, the things that really takes the cake home is kissing. Kissing is by far the best thing that our mouths can accomplish. Kissing can be sweet, romantic, sexy and full of love. However, when it happens, we may not always understand why it is happening. Especially when it comes to a guy that you have never kissed before. A kiss out of nowhere can be extremely confusing and leaving you scratching your head… Or more accurately maybe you will be scratching your lips.
So, now you are wondering what him kissing you could mean, right?
Your heart may be beating fast, but the first thing you need to do is CALM DOWN. As exhilarating as it is to get kissed by this specific guy for the first time, we need you to take a deep breath and clear your mind.
To figure out why he kissed you, the first thing that you will need to do is think about the relationship between the two of you. Who is he to you? How long have you been acquainted? Are the two of you close? Or did you just meet?
Why do you have to think about that kind of stuff? Well, you are going to want to gather a little bit of context so that you can solve this mystery.
The second thing that you will need to remember is what type of kiss on the lips it was that he gave you. Yes, there are different types of lip kisses and each one of them have different meanings behind them.
So what we can do to help you figure out what it means when a guy kisses you, is let you read over the different types of kisses, what they mean and how the time you have known each other makes a difference!
Short closed mouth kisses are also commonly called ‘pecks’ or ‘smooches’. These are the types of kisses you that you will receive from your mom or your grandmother. Well, only if you have those types of family members (which some of us most certainly do!) that love to give you a quick peck on the lips and embarrass the living crap out of you. So oftentimes these types of kisses are not always a signal that a guy is romantically interested in you. A lot of cultures actually consider it appropriate to give a small peck on the lips as a formal greeting. It can simply mean, ‘Hello, how are you?’ Or it could mean, ‘Welcome to my home.’ What you have to think about is what type of culture this man has and what context was he giving you the kiss in. Have you known him a short amount of time? Maybe this is how he greets someone, but you just haven’t known him long enough to know that yet. A short closed mouth kiss could also signal that he had a moment of excitement and needed to express his excitement somehow. Did he just win a scratch off? Did he get a promotion? Were you there with him when he got his good news and then he kissed you right after hearing it? That probably means that he was just caught up in the moment and needed someone to help him celebrate.
Long closed mouth kisses are not as commonly given as short closed mouth kisses, a.k.a pecks on the lip, and they are certainly not given by mothers or grandmothers. Well, we would hope not anyways. The longer the length, the more intimate a kiss becomes. It is safe to say that if a guy kisses you on the mouth, even with both of your lips closed, for more than thirty seconds, then he probably likes you as more than just a friend.
Ah, the infamous lip biting type of kissing. These kinds of kisses are much more intimate. Closed mouth kisses don’t hold a candle to these sexy kisses. And that’s exactly what they are. Super, super sexy. So if a guy surprises you with this type of kiss it is not so innocent. Although he may not want to engage in any sexual activity with you, he will bite your lip while the two of you are kissing if he has a strong physical attraction towards you. In other words, this kiss is lustful! It’s all about desire and lust. You’re definitely not in the friend zone anymore if he is kissing you like that.
Even more intimate and sexy than the lip biting kiss, these kisses come in at one of the hottest kisses known to man. These are not for people who don’t have feelings for each other. Unless you are an actor and have to french kiss someone on screen. These kisses lead the two of you to trade saliva and get really close with one another. If he is french kissing you, he probably wants to take things to the next level pretty soon.